Say something about yourself that is not complimentary

[Huzo]

There are bits of us that our inner self knows exist, but bristle when it is pointed out by others or at the very least, move us to deflect attention away from the perceived attack and swing momentum towards our assailant.
If you were going to point out something that you know exists that you accept as an endearing quality in you, but as character flaw when you witness it in someone else....
What would it be ?
I have some that I know are there, but I think I can usually keep masked.
I could go first, but unlike me I’ll try as long as I can not to talk about myself...(there’s one..)
But here’s a starter.
Anyone here as a thought experiment, is being offered the chance to point out a flaw that they can see in me, based on the level that they know me and I will not offer any rebuttal, even if I think my argument is sound...
I do not have ANY hidden agenda..(I respect Ncdan too much...)
Tell me yours or point out mine, I will not reciprocate

[AJ Huff]

I can joke about my weight. No one else can. Not do I tolerate criticism from others about my weight.

-AJ

[Huzo]

Good start.

[reidy]

U r ​two judgemental about speling and grammer?

My biggest fault is I have a perception about how other feel about my actions or that they are judging me. I try not to offend others but have found it is always possible to offend someone. I have typed this out about half a dozen times as I would not normally respond, so people won't judge me. But I decided to take it a sign and state it publicly.

[Huzo]

U r ​two judgemental about speling and grammer?

Fare point....
PM me your phone # again Reidy......
Or call me on 0437070946

[Rough Edge racing]

 I  think this tread is dumb...

[Huzo]

I  think this tread is dumb...

Yes, but what do you think about the thread ?

[SIR REAL ED]

I don't like it when others point out my spotty memory, or lack of attention and focus.  Luckily they, and whatever the hell they were talking about are soon forgotten.

I'll reply to this thread later when I have time.....

[kingoffleece]

Foxy Cleopatra: "Austin, tell me something I don't know?"
Powers: "I once kissed kissed a horse on the mouth, you don't know that."


it's all I got this morning............ ............

[Jackr]

Drink too much, laugh too loud, curse inappropriately, resent good advice, don't wear underwear, don't respect my elders, ride a Moto Guzzi

[Huzo]

I  think this tread is dumb...

Is that what attracted you to it Rough ?

[cliffrod]

So many choices.....  The easy answer is ask my ex-wives.  Pretty sure they could quickly cover all of my flaws and shortcomings..

[Huzo]

Drink too much, laugh too loud, curse inappropriately, resent good advice, don't wear underwear, don't respect my elders, ride a Moto Guzzi

Mate, I asked you to point out your BAD qualities...!

[Huzo]

So many choices.....  The easy answer is ask my ex-wives.  Pretty sure they could quickly cover all of my flaws and shortcomings..

If they left you, at least they were good judges of character..

[dirtiegirtie]

"If you were going to point out something that you know exists that you accept as an endearing quality in you, but as character flaw when you witness it in someone else.... What would it be?"

When someone tells me about a situation they are experiencing, I automatically try to "solve the problem". It's my default approach to listening; try to solve the problem as it is presented. I think it's an endearing quality, but I've been told that it's annoying... sometimes the speaker wants you to acknowledge how the situation is making them feel, not try to solve the problem for them.

Also, my farts are funny no matter the situation. Other people's flatulence is gross.

[Huzo]

When someone tells me about a situation they are experiencing, I automatically try to "solve the problem". It's my default approach to listening; try to solve the problem as it is presented. I think it's an endearing quality, but I've been told that it's annoying... sometimes the speaker wants you to acknowledge how the situation is making them feel, not try to solve the problem for them.

Jeeez.
Are you sure we’re not related ?

[Rough Edge racing]

Is that what attracted you to it Rough ?

Yes, I can be sarcastic and acerbic and this tread just demands it..That's why I like Australians..

[F-Fred]

I am a member of this forum.

[BRG-BIRD]

I can be very direct (but polite) and speak truth which annoys and irritates some

[Caffeineo]

I do not read or follow directions well.

Hey Huzo if you had to choose between the V85 and Norge which one would you keep and why? 

[Huzo]

If the barn was on fire and I only had time to push one out, it’d be the Norge.
Certainly in my case, the history has a lot to do with it, but to me my Norge just seems special and not possible to replicate.

[SmithSwede]

I’m so darn handsome that I make guys resent me and women are always distracted.   

[Guzzi Gal]

My biggest fault is I have a perception about how others feel about my actions or that they are judging me. I try not to offend others but have found it is always possible to offend someone. I have typed this out about half a dozen times as I would not normally respond, so people won't judge me. But I decided to take it as a sign and state it publicly.

^This^ and I procrastinate, partly because of ^this^.

[John Croucher]

I can be very direct (but polite) and speak truth which annoys and irritates some

Same here.  I call it as I see/hear it. 

And I change my mind/plans as situations change, confusing others.

People do like to see me come and go. They do seek me out for for help and advise.  I do have have self actualization and comfortable with who I am.

[acguzzi]

stubborn, but I like to think of it as determined 

[cliffrod]

If they left you, at least they were good judges of character..

Yeah, that has been mentioned...more than once. 

[Ncdan]

My wife says I’m OCD….. and I probably have to agree 🤔

[Moparnut72]

I’m so darn handsome that I make guys resent me and women are always distracted.

Then who's mug is that in your avatar?   

In my case my jokes are funny but I have been told only to me.
kk

[bad Chad]

This will be a popular thread Huzo for sure, people everywhere Love to talk about themselves.

[geoff in almonte]

I'm old, fat and ugly.

And my mother dresses me funny.

And I have this annoying tic in my right eye.....

Other than that, I'm fine.

G