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Hmmm. Well, as a long term single guy- I may be more attuned to the psychology of dating. First of all- she has to physically give you some indication of attraction before you can get the digits. Somewhat nervous twirling of her hair, reaching her hand out to make even slight contact with you (touching your hand or sleave), longer than normal direct eye contact. Once you begin to look for it- it's easy to key in on. If you are getting these signals, you'll have no problem getting a phone number.Nice or pleasant conversation is not enough. Women- especially attractive women- are used to people being nice and pleasant to them. You have to demonstrate that you are somehow different- unique. Did you have a conversation that was somehow insightful, or somehow engaged the way she thinks or feels? Think of Oprah or the View- women are often concerned about situational evaluations or your "inner self".I know, I know, guys are typically the exact opposite. We'd rather debate the merits of the Pratt & Whitney R-2800 vs the BMW 801 radials. I'm not saying you were getting all nerd on her. I would suspect that you were demonstrating that you were a caring parent and discussing shared experience. That makes you no different than the neighbor though. She would rather see that you were more concerned by how she looks at life- unlike her uncommunicative ex husband. At the same time, she wants to see something in you that demonstrates that you somehow rise above the other cavemen. I'm not saying brag about shit that you own (although that certainly is enough to lure in the gold digger type whom you wouldn't want to waste time with anyway). What element of you says Gregory Peck, Clint Eastwood, Bruce Willis ? The man with a plan is an icon to women as well. They are surrounded by "nice guys". I'm not saying you should be a dick- just that you have to be "not like all the other guys". Women are hard wired to evaluate men and to choose selectively. If there was another women at the bar, would the person you are interested in feel the need to gain your attention because the other woman might be competition? I could go on and on. Joe- if you are jumping back in the game, you need to be schooled in the psy ops of the modern dating world. Most of my married friends are horrified when I break it down, but they have just been dealing with another type of psychology that's focused on maintaining the give and take of a successful relationship (and I certainly won't try to give advice on that).Jonathan
Once you come to terms with the part where no woman has any legitimate reason to be interested in you, avoiding them becomes easy.
No one ever said this has to make sense. It just is. In the same sense that Mount Everest "is" and Alma Cogen "isn't".*JKK
Wait a moment - Alma Cogan IS...http://www.npg.org.uk/collections/search/portrait/mw17791/Alma-Cogan
You need a better pickup line.Dean
A female friend once told me that women know within 30 seconds whether they will or won't with a particular guy . Now , she admitted that sometimes men screw it up by saying or doing the wrong thing , but rarely is it based on doing or saying the right thing . Dusty
yoo hoo!
Will waiting make the phone number somehow magically work ? Oh wait , that gives her time to change her number Dusty
Interestingly , my same female friend told me that the quickest way to get a woman's attention is to act like you aren't interested . Kinda makes them crazy
The former. She doesn't like small blocks. Bill
I would think Guzzi rallies would be a good place to pick up women, right? Seems like the perfect combo, lots of guys with enough cash to buy and ride exotic Italian m/c. Plenty of good fun, food and liquor, what more could a twenty something buxom fun loving girl ask for?