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Title: Simplifying life
Post by: faffi on December 09, 2025, 01:54:59 AM
I was born in 1964, and over the years I have amassed a lot of stuff. It really began to go downhill about 20 years ago, when I allowed myself to own two motorcycles at the same time. Now I own 4, but only one is in perfect working condition, because I no longer find all that much joy working on old stuff that needs constant attention. Then there is the old cabin we took our from my wife's mother that also require time and effort, although the brunt of it was done over the past year.

But it is not just bikes I own too much of, there is also stuff around the house - hers and mine - that I/we do not really want or need anymore, not to mention my wife's insane wardrobe that, despite her giving away several sacks of clothes every year, is still expanding. There is also stuff left behind by our kids when they moved out that take up space.

However, we have finally, albeit slowly, begun the process of reduction. When I am done, I want to be left with two motorcycles; one for home, and one sitting at the cabin. I do not really need the latter, but I want one there, and transporting my "home-bike" cross country is not practical. I also want to get rid of all the clutter that I know will never be used again, as well as all the books I will never read again, plus all the paintings that will never hang on our walls again. And so on.

It feel liberating just thinking about it - I cannot imagine how good it will feel once all the stuff is gone!
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: Bill W on December 09, 2025, 04:58:24 AM
Its gotta be a age thing ( I'm 66 ). I bought my house 20yrs ago and what sold me on it was it came with a 4000s/f metal barn! Well its full of what I now consider junk so I am also downsizing. When I recently picked up a second bike I decided its time to get rid of my other toy ( pic ) which was a hobby of mine for over 30yrs and I don't even miss it or any of the others I've had. Funny how things/priorities change in your life.


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Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: SIR REAL ED on December 09, 2025, 05:28:57 AM

Well said gents.

I think it is very much related to age and the realization that stuff can be burdensome.

"The owner of so many goods has no room left to ease his mind."  IIRC, Marcus Aurelius
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: blu guzz on December 09, 2025, 06:17:30 AM
Sometimes downsizing your living space forces this awakening.  5 years ago, much of our "stuff" did not make the move with us.  I have only missed certain tools that I knew or imagined I used to have in the old house.  Other then that, we have made things easier for our kids when we are gone.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: faffi on December 09, 2025, 06:55:58 AM
Funny you should mention your kids, as I too have thought "do I really want my kids to have to go through all this stuff?" The answer is no. Not that there are any embarrasing secrets, it is just a lot of clutter. My mother in law's house is crammed with garbage to the point only a vivid hoarder can achive. When she goes, there will be many containers to fill... and I do not want to leave behind even a fraction of that burden.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: n3303j on December 09, 2025, 08:08:29 AM
You only think you own stuff.
Stuff owns you.
It demands your time, energy and resources to maintain posession.

Joplin: "Freedom's just another word for nothing left to loose."
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: John Croucher on December 09, 2025, 08:19:31 AM
I, We, hired labor, flea market owners loaded out over 50 tons into roll dumpsters, plus many more tons and truck loads hauled off. Stuff We inherited.

I have tried to only keep and accumulate what is actually needed.  But still have stuff on 3 properties.

I recently drove a 1977 Mustang 2 home.  Another project.  I do have 3 fully functional motorcycles though.  A priority to me.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: Bulldog9 on December 09, 2025, 08:23:35 AM
I was born in 1964, and over the years I have amassed a lot of stuff. It really began to go downhill about 20 years ago, when I allowed myself to own two motorcycles at the same time. Now I own 4, but only one is in perfect working condition, because I no longer find all that much joy working on old stuff that needs constant attention. Then there is the old cabin we took our from my wife's mother that also require time and effort, although the brunt of it was done over the past year.

But it is not just bikes I own too much of, there is also stuff around the house - hers and mine - that I/we do not really want or need anymore, not to mention my wife's insane wardrobe that, despite her giving away several sacks of clothes every year, is still expanding. There is also stuff left behind by our kids when they moved out that take up space.

However, we have finally, albeit slowly, begun the process of reduction. When I am done, I want to be left with two motorcycles; one for home, and one sitting at the cabin. I do not really need the latter, but I want one there, and transporting my "home-bike" cross country is not practical. I also want to get rid of all the clutter that I know will never be used again, as well as all the books I will never read again, plus all the paintings that will never hang on our walls again. And so on.

It feel liberating just thinking about it - I cannot imagine how good it will feel once all the stuff is gone!

I moved every 18-24 months for almost 30 years. It was easy to keep things simple, even though during that time I did amass 7 motorcycles and 3 cars. At one point, I had them stored in 3 locations. For me at least, for the family, my wife was able to stay in our home in Alexandria since 2005. I was mostly deployed, stationed all over the country. WHen I was in the US, she would come and stay with me.  The glut in Alexandria is real............  And, with 4 kids and 3 siblings (hers) who can't keep it together, we have a 10x20 room in the basement STACKED with boxes of THEIR crap..........  Still, I have so much stuff. Heck, I have the MARANTZ receiver and turntable I bought in College. In fact, I am listening to it now  :cool:

I keep saying I'm gonna simplify, and cut down, etc. but I keep adding.............  :cool: But the lovely Mrs. Bulldog and I are looking at clearing the clutter and the truly unnecessary..... I keep looking at all the glassware/dishes (we literally have enough glassware to host a 100 person party) and she keeps looking at my boxes of parts and collection of motorcycles. My goal is to truly trim things down when I turn 70, cut back to a couple cars and motorcycles, and only keep the tools and junk I need.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: faffi on December 09, 2025, 08:51:46 AM
You only think you own stuff.
Stuff owns you.


I seem to recall from a book about an indian tribe that quotet something like "if you own more than you can carry, your belongings own you".
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: SIR REAL ED on December 09, 2025, 08:53:34 AM

First world problems are the best kind to have!
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: LowRyter on December 09, 2025, 09:30:14 AM
I'd like to pare down.  Get rid of my '98 EV but keep the Sport & Duc.  Sell my Toy Hauler and DuraMax tow truck. Sell my Slingerland 5 piece trap set with Zildian cymbals.

Most of all would like to see the old crew get over themselves from - and politics from the past 8 years and bring back the fun old days. 

I'm pessimistic about how any of it will work out.   Will be 72 this spring.

Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: wirespokes on December 09, 2025, 09:44:44 AM
Joplin: "Freedom's just another word for nothing left to loose."
Actually, didn't Chris Christofferson write that song?
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: Clifton on December 09, 2025, 10:28:38 AM
Thanks for this reminder thread.

I also have too much stuff which I need to reduce rather than burden my children with. My house is not that large but still there's all the furniture, clothes, a dozen boxes of picture albums, some older firearms, safe, etc.

 My real problem is the stuff in 3 different out buildings/garages, the shed, and 3 carports. *Lots* of tools that neither my son or SIL will use, most are in the motorcycle shop but there are also sets in the other two buildings for convenience.

 Just thinking off the top of my head there are 7 motorcycles with accessories, lift, a dozen different riding suits, jackets, etc. Also woodworking equipment (table saw, drill press, lathe, ban saw, joiner, etc)  2 chain saws, trimmer, 2 SXS's, ZTR mower, log splitter, garden tractor, compact utility tractor with backhoe along with 8-9 other attachments, stump grinder, generator, bicycles........ I need to get started.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: bronzestar1 on December 09, 2025, 10:41:52 AM
I was renting a 12x30 storage unit where I kept my '99 Jag XJ8, and a 10x10 where I kept the bikes.  Finally got tired of the rent increases, and decided to move to another storage location and consolidate everything into a new 12x30 unit.  Doing this was going to save me about $450 a month, so it was a no-brainer.  One never knows how much "stuff" one has until it comes time to move it!  I had "stuff" from vehicles I no longer owned, and once I realized how few things needed to make the move, I got rid of everything else on FB Marketplace (gave it away, and paid someone to haul away what was left).  I'll be moving stuff again in about a year when I retire from VA to NC for good, so I was keeping that in mind as well.  As was mentioned, it was kind of "liberating" to get rid of that "stuff", had no real emotional attachment to it anymore, and needed to close those chapters in my life!     
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: n3303j on December 09, 2025, 10:50:33 AM
Starts with the little things. Now if I replace a part I automatically dispose of the faulty one. No more hanging on to it because I might use it in the future. I'm 80 and the future is here and now.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: Motormike on December 09, 2025, 04:30:29 PM
I've been ever so slowly getting rid of all my "takeoff" parts.  You learn pretty quickly what might sell on Ebay, and what is a waste of time.  After market exhaust...sell it!  Stock exhaust...toss it!  Aftermarket seat..sell it!  Stock seat...toss it, and so on.  I take a look at Ebay listings, and if there are more than three or four of what I have, I know there's really no point in trying to get any money for it. Almost all the small parts I've horded for years are going in the dumpster.  Anybody want a pair of stock plastic handgrips for a Harley Davidson? Or maybe some used Ducati clutch plates?  No?  Didn't think so.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: Huzo on December 09, 2025, 05:37:21 PM
I need to get rid of multiple Guzzi T shirts that are too tight and go shopping for a bra. I have to go to Melbourne now on my Norge and I know I’ll have trouble doing up my riding pants… :embarrassed:
It’s all getting too much.
Have to empty out the wardrobe.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: Bulldog9 on December 09, 2025, 05:49:01 PM
Funny you should mention your kids, as I too have thought "do I really want my kids to have to go through all this stuff?" The answer is no. Not that there are any embarrasing secrets, it is just a lot of clutter. My mother in law's house is crammed with garbage to the point only a vivid hoarder can achive. When she goes, there will be many containers to fill... and I do not want to leave behind even a fraction of that burden.

I have a detailed will with instructions....... ........... LOL....... But..... NONE of my stuff is Junk........... That's all my wife's stuff.........

Next spring when I unpack all my crap, and set up my retirement garage, I am going to sell ALL the extra/unused stuff, parts, etc. and will likely just mail it to whoever wants it if they pay postage.

But in reality I don't have too much crap. Moving every 2 years makes moving junk hard.  I do need to let a few things go, specifically the Breva 750, 1200 SPort, and XS750.............. .... ANyone wanna help? ;-)
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: ridingron on December 09, 2025, 07:12:23 PM
Actually, didn't Chris Christofferson write that song?

Actually Kris Kristofferson (K's not C's  :laugh:) wrote Me and Bobby McGee which contained the line the line "Freedom's just another word for nothing left to loose." I personally think Janice Joplin's version of the son is the best.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: ridingron on December 09, 2025, 07:38:14 PM
A couple post made me think of this:


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Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: faffi on December 10, 2025, 01:14:20 AM
I've been ever so slowly getting rid of all my "takeoff" parts.  You learn pretty quickly what might sell on Ebay, and what is a waste of time.  After market exhaust...sell it!  Stock exhaust...toss it!  Aftermarket seat..sell it!  Stock seat...toss it, and so on.  I take a look at Ebay listings, and if there are more than three or four of what I have, I know there's really no point in trying to get any money for it. Almost all the small parts I've horded for years are going in the dumpster.  Anybody want a pair of stock plastic handgrips for a Harley Davidson? Or maybe some used Ducati clutch plates?  No?  Didn't think so.

People restoring back to stock will be interested in the parts you list, but they may be few and far between. FWIW, some think that they sit on gold and demand more for a crusty old part than NOS parts cost :shocked:
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: faffi on December 10, 2025, 01:16:17 AM
A couple post made me think of this:


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 :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: blu guzz on December 10, 2025, 06:41:20 AM
One roadblock to paring down may be your children who use your house as their storage unit.  Don't let your kids live too close to you.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: faffi on December 10, 2025, 07:35:20 AM
One roadblock to paring down may be your children who use your house as their storage unit.  Don't let your kids live too close to you.

The worst offender lives on the other side of the country with his fiance. They are visiting for Xmas, and I hope they manage to fit most of their belongings in their SUV when they leave.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: Clifton on December 10, 2025, 09:03:07 AM
A small utility trailer would make a nice gift for "the worst offender" to take home with him.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: faffi on December 10, 2025, 09:27:36 AM
A small utility trailer would make a nice gift for "the worst offender" to take home with him.

He has a quite big one he can borrow from his father in law, but said he will not bring it this time... but will be back in the early spring.
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: MikeP996 on December 10, 2025, 09:54:19 AM
I (we) just keep acquiring more stuff and never get rid of any of it!  Heck, I have purchased my "last guitar," my "last motorcycle," my "last camera," (and other "lasts") at least 4-5 times.  My latest "last motorcycle" was this year - my V7 850 Special; so was my latest "last camera," a Hasselblad X2D.  Now that I think about, so was my latest "last guitar," a vintage J45 Gibson...

Frankly, I don't care what my kids have to deal with when we're gone.  I've suggested they do the same thing we did when my parents departed - pick what they want and then hire estate sale people to sell the rest.  Works great - call them, they come and sort/tag/and handle the sales.  Three days later it's all gone and they hand you money! 

I'm thinking about buying my "last stereo amplifier" (bought my previous "last one" two years ago) - bought my "last set of speakers" in '23... ;)
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: faffi on December 10, 2025, 03:09:43 PM
Never heard of estate sale people handling interior and other belongings - AFAIK, nobody does that in Norway, but I really like the idea :thumb:
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: n3303j on December 10, 2025, 03:48:42 PM
Never heard of estate sale people handling interior and other belongings - AFAIK, nobody does that in Norway, but I really like the idea :thumb:
Pretty standard around here in Massachusetts. Used to live in a 55+ manufactured home community of about 1,000 homes. So someone was always dying or heading off to the nursing home. The sellers would come in and set all that was in the home up for display. Then they'd do a two or three day sale after publicizing the event. The people who hired them got the proceeds. Any leftovers were removed by the agent. Pricing was such to encourage a quick sale and make cleanup easy for the agent.

Suppose that one could always call the "American Pickers" and have them make an offer for the pile. If it's got old motorcycles......
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: bobrebos1 on December 10, 2025, 04:33:41 PM
I need to thin the herd too.  Lots of stuff/things to get rid of.  Think Il start doing that in 2026!
Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: turboguzzi on December 11, 2025, 02:09:47 AM
Faffi, im same age as you, plan on retiring next year, but find myslef in an opposite position.....

I love wrenching, inventing and making stuff for my bikes (one invention might come to this forum too), and there is so much other types of riding and models that i still want to try.... specially now that ill have more time

there are about 10 bikes in the herd here, 5 currently in pretty constant use, the other 5 are racers from the days i was doing the italian vintage championship. Two of them i surely not interested  in keeping, but definitely want to add a Falcone.... and maybe something from the 20's, never had a Flat tanker....

With the dropping prices in classics, now its the time to get more!



Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: faffi on December 11, 2025, 02:25:32 AM
I can really understand that, turboguzzi, because there is a big difference between amassing stuff that you more or less know you will never need or use, and stuff you are going to do things to or with. When we bought the cabin a year ago, it did mean more work and more time being spent, but it is work I (mostly) enjoy.

Title: Re: Simplifying life
Post by: mechanicsavant on December 11, 2025, 12:30:26 PM
Recommended watching, George Carlin’s riff on stuff !