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Title: We had 16 geat years. NGC
Post by: Kent in Upstate NY on December 05, 2017, 05:46:09 PM
Just said goodbye to my wife today. Cancer can suck it. (https://scontent-lax3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/24300932_10213123078984137_6664829140150061389_n.jpg?oh=9590f56206d117b0bc40a614ad62738f&oe=5ACD59DF)
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Post by: Kev m on December 05, 2017, 05:48:08 PM
I cannot even imagine. Thoughts and prayers.
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Post by: oldbike54 on December 05, 2017, 05:48:57 PM
 No words Kent , but hang in brother .

 Dusty
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Post by: jas67 on December 05, 2017, 05:51:05 PM
Wow, so sorry to hear this awful news.
Please accept my sincere condolences. 
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Post by: nobleswood on December 05, 2017, 05:54:25 PM
Sorry to hear that. My thoughts & prayers go out to you.
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Post by: twowings on December 05, 2017, 05:55:48 PM
May you find peace...
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Post by: lucian on December 05, 2017, 06:02:30 PM
I'm  sorry for your loss . May  god give you strength and healing.   
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Post by: Guzzi Gal on December 05, 2017, 06:14:56 PM
Even when you know what's coming, and have prepared as best you could, it is still a heart-wrenching shock.  She's in a better place if you believe in such things, if not she's been freed from suffering. 
 
Love
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Post by: bigbikerrick on December 05, 2017, 06:15:53 PM
I am very sorry, Kent.  Your beautiful wife, has a very kind face...reminds me of a nurse co worker I worked with, and admired in the past.Prayers for you, and your family.
Rick.
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Post by: radguzzi on December 05, 2017, 06:17:01 PM
Our most sincere condolences for such an early loss.

May you find peace in the time you had together.

Rob & Sue
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Post by: Markcarovilli on December 05, 2017, 06:18:43 PM
My condolences-

Mark
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Post by: Diploman on December 05, 2017, 06:20:23 PM
Terrible news.  Let her go gracefully, treasure her memory, and tend to your own self, so grief doesn't overwhelm your well-being.  Peace upon you.
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Post by: Moto on December 05, 2017, 06:24:42 PM
Kent,

I am so sorry to hear of this. Best of luck to you.

Moto/John
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Post by: blackcat on December 05, 2017, 06:28:37 PM
Kent, I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Post by: drdwb on December 05, 2017, 06:30:36 PM
Cherish the 16 years of memories. So sorry for you to lose your life partner. Time will help.
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Post by: StuCorpe on December 05, 2017, 06:36:53 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss.  My condolences to you.
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Post by: daytonars97 on December 05, 2017, 06:47:55 PM
She will remain alive for as long as she is in your memories. So, go on living and you will honor her. My condolences.
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Post by: wirespokes on December 05, 2017, 06:50:31 PM
All things come to an end - just the way this universe is. It sucks, but it's gonna happen one way or another. You did better than my marriage which ended with her running off with a mattress salesman. It upset me at first, but in fact, was a very good thing. We'd all like to go in our sleep, but it's no fair when others beat us to it! Cherish what you had, don't regret yesterday, live today, and create a wonderful future.
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Post by: Sheepdog on December 05, 2017, 06:52:49 PM
Peace to you and Godspeed to your beautiful spouse. So sorry that you have lost her...
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Post by: wavedog on December 05, 2017, 06:56:48 PM
I cannot imagine or feel what you must be going thru. My deepest condolences.
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Post by: Adk.IBO on December 05, 2017, 07:03:08 PM
 
I'm  sorry for your loss . May  god give you strength and healing.

 :1: ...as usual someone else here says what I want to before me...
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Post by: bpreynolds on December 05, 2017, 07:05:44 PM
I cannot imagine or feel what you must be going thru. My deepest condolences.

 :1:
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Post by: guzzi4me on December 05, 2017, 07:11:52 PM
I can't even imagine what you are feeling now. It would devastate me to lose my best friend.
Memories are wonderful...and depend on friends to help you through this...including the online ones here.
Prayers,

Jeff & Laurie
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Post by: Gliderjohn on December 05, 2017, 07:19:58 PM
Kent, so sorry to hear. I lost my first wife after 23 years to a medical condition. If I may, time can and does reduce some of the pain. Cherish the good memories. Lastly, try not to let yourself wallow in grief. Life can be good going forward if you can let it and work at it a bit. After some time try to get out and about whether attending rallies, volunteering, traveling, whatever. My wife passed on May 18th 2001 and I attended a Guzzi rally two weeks later and it was a really nice diversion.
GliderJohn
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Post by: bobrebos on December 05, 2017, 07:25:38 PM
May you find peace and the strength needed.  All my best to you.  I am a cancer survivor and also know first hand the devastation cancer brings.  I wish only the best for you going forward. 
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Post by: Zoom Zoom on December 05, 2017, 08:09:35 PM
This is a difficult thing to deal with. I'm so sorry to hear about your wife. Cherish the time you had and honor her memory.

John Henry
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Post by: lti_57 on December 05, 2017, 08:11:32 PM
(https://ih1.redbubble.net/image.110544674.4891/sticker,220x200-bg,ffffff-pad,220x200,ffffff.u1.jpg)

I am so sorry to hear this really I feel your pain and loss
I lost my wife of 33 years to Brain Cancer 9 months ago
makes me cry cause i  know what you feel
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Post by: Ncdan on December 05, 2017, 08:35:46 PM
Thoughts and prayers coming your way.
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Post by: Aaron D. on December 05, 2017, 08:46:00 PM
Oh, Kent, I'm so sorry to hear this. My deepest sympathy to you.
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Post by: Bonaventure on December 05, 2017, 09:03:00 PM
Really sorry to hear.  Deepest condolences.  Lost my wife in 2012 after 23 yrs, not saying I know how you feel since each experience is uniquely tough, just to offer my sincere regrets for your loss. 
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Post by: Muzz on December 05, 2017, 09:11:15 PM
My sincere condolences Kent on the loss of your wife. Although she will live on in your memories I know the pain still hurts.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Murray
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Post by: Carlo DeSantis on December 05, 2017, 09:31:27 PM
So sorry to hear this, Kent.

No words will ever be enough at times like this.

I wish you peace.

Best,

Carlo
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Post by: MMRanch on December 05, 2017, 10:06:58 PM
Kent ,

I'm glad you had the years together , and hope you live he rest of your days the way she would want you to . 
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Post by: Nic in Western NYS on December 05, 2017, 10:09:56 PM
So very sorry to hear this Kent.  My family's condolences to you and yours.
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Post by: Demar on December 05, 2017, 10:48:12 PM
I'm so sorry to hear Kent. I hope you can find peace.
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Post by: vstevens on December 05, 2017, 11:09:32 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss.  Deepest condolences.
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Post by: Shorty on December 06, 2017, 12:30:36 AM
Sorry, sir. Remember the good times, try to forget the bad.
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Post by: kingoffleece on December 06, 2017, 12:43:25 AM
So very sorry for you and your family.
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Post by: Dukedesmo on December 06, 2017, 04:35:07 AM
Sincerest condolences.
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Post by: TRw1 on December 06, 2017, 05:00:59 AM
Very sorry about your loss.
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Post by: sdcr on December 06, 2017, 05:17:58 AM
Very sorry for your loss, our sincere condolences.
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Post by: Vince in Milwaukee on December 06, 2017, 05:56:32 AM
So very sorry to hear this.  My deepest condolences. 
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Post by: davedel44 on December 06, 2017, 07:15:31 AM
So sorry for your loss.

Dave
Galveston


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Post by: timonbik on December 06, 2017, 07:20:37 AM
 Our prayers and thoughts are with you.  You have to  believe she is at peace in a better place.

Tim and Sue
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Post by: Chuck in Indiana on December 06, 2017, 07:50:27 AM
My Grandmother lost her husband and Mother within a year. I was just a baby, but it was traumatic for her, need I say? One thing she said that I will always remember is, "Life is for the living."  She was right. I've seen this many times now. Of course there is a period of deep grief, but time *will* cure it. Take care of yourself while this is happening.
All the best from us and your Guzzi family..
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Post by: Rough Edge racing on December 06, 2017, 07:53:23 AM
 I hope you are able to find peace.............. ....
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Post by: rdbandkab on December 06, 2017, 09:43:24 AM
Deepest condolences.
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Post by: Groover on December 06, 2017, 09:52:06 AM
Very sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Mr Pootle on December 06, 2017, 10:35:09 AM
so sorry. Treasure the memories of those years together.
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Post by: jcctx on December 06, 2017, 10:43:26 AM
My sincere condolences~~
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Post by: Testarossa on December 06, 2017, 10:47:18 AM
So sorry to hear this. Treasure her memory. I lost Bev in 2012 and remember the good times every day.
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Post by: tasdisr on December 06, 2017, 11:21:25 AM
My condolences on your loss.

Frank
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Post by: Stevex on December 06, 2017, 11:29:51 AM
RIP.
Can't begin to imagine what it must be like to lose your soul mate.
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Post by: hidn45 on December 06, 2017, 11:45:53 AM
Our sincere condolences, we're sorry for your loss.  If you can, spend some of the energy you had been using to care for her on caring for yourself....

And remember - we're all here for you if you need us.

Peace-
Lois & Randy
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Post by: ITSec on December 06, 2017, 12:49:32 PM
Unfortunately, I can imagine exactly what you are going through. The whole online community here joins your friends and family nearby in sharing your grief, celebrating your life together, and wishing you and your family peace.

If you ever need to talk with someone who has lost a spouse in similar circumstances, feel free to PM me.
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Post by: Spuddy on December 06, 2017, 01:09:21 PM
Blessings. In a small way I'm with you...

Spud
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Post by: ILM Rosso on December 06, 2017, 01:25:46 PM
Heartfelt Condolences to You and Yours....May She Rest in Peace....
In Sympathy,
Mark
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Post by: Unkept on December 06, 2017, 01:43:14 PM
I have lost my grandmother to cancer, and my mother in law is currently being treated for cancer. We moved back from Germany to be close to her as she goes through it.

My condolences. I hope you can find the time and energy to get out. Meet with friends, do those things you've always wanted to do, etc.

My grandfather went through a lot of emotional pain, but once he started to force himself to see concerts, take trips to wherever he wanted, etc. He began to heal.

-Joe
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Post by: Dilliw on December 06, 2017, 01:52:15 PM
So sorry to hear this.  I love the title of your post, however; that's a great way to look at life.

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Post by: Lannis on December 06, 2017, 02:19:16 PM
So sorry to hear this.  I love the title of your post, however; that's a great way to look at life.

That's the first thing I thought when I realized what had happened.

Fay and I know that one or the other of us will be saying the same thing someday; best to be prepared .... Seeing how others handle it is a real gift to us.

Lannis
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Post by: twodogs on December 06, 2017, 02:22:44 PM
Very sorry to hear of your loss, may she rest in peace.
Bruce
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Post by: Bob Wegman on December 06, 2017, 03:36:47 PM
Very sorry to hear of your loss. God Bless
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Post by: Kiwi Dave on December 06, 2017, 04:38:29 PM
My sincere condolences on your sad loss.

Kiwi Dave
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Post by: Tom on December 06, 2017, 05:09:07 PM
Sorry to hear.  My condolences.
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Post by: Kent in Upstate NY on December 06, 2017, 05:35:25 PM
You guys are great. She had been fighting cancer for a long time and we knew this was going to happen. Just not this soon.
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Post by: kingoffleece on December 06, 2017, 07:57:31 PM
It's just so ugly.  Ugh.
Wish I had something brilliant to say  Sorry for your loss seems so................. ...useless.
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Post by: Socalrob on December 07, 2017, 11:44:20 AM
Damn all cancer.  So sorry for your loss.  We lost my Brother In Law at age 69 a  few years ago.  He missed seeing his twin daughters married by a couple of years.  It's always too soon.