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Offline Kiwi_Roy

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Re: Alzheimers Program on PBS Last Night
« Reply #30 on: January 28, 2017, 06:20:09 AM »
This is an interesting topic, luckily I haven't had to deal with it first hand, what Maurie says seems to make sense.
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Re: Alzheimers Program on PBS Last Night
« Reply #31 on: January 28, 2017, 09:57:35 AM »
It would be difficult to handle an angry Alzheimer patient.
I was lucky in that Mum was in a care facility with trained
Nurses (may all Gods bless them) and buy their account
She was more like a good but slightly mischevious child.

She'd only get unsettled if you were trying to get her to
Remember something or recall an event/person
whatever - but if you just chat and let them talk about
Anything they like and don't question things they say
then they're just happy to have company and talk.

Maurie.

My mothers situation is quite different.  She is often very aware that something is terribly wrong with her brain.  She is scared, doesn't understand whats happening to her, and there is no way to help understand.  We have a tendency to treat dementia patients like children, but in many cases thats not helpful at all.  Unlike a child, they cannot retain or process information in a logical way.  My mom gets angry, she is seldom happy, most of the time she strings incoherent sentences together , and it is becoming harder each passing day to try and patch her thoughts together to understand what she in trying to say.
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Re: Alzheimers Program on PBS Last Night
« Reply #32 on: January 28, 2017, 12:50:20 PM »
After awhile some AZ(alzheimers) life partners can't take the mental condition any more and just have to get away so they can have some semblance of happiness in their lives again.  :sad:   It becomes a no win situation.
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Re: Alzheimers Program on PBS Last Night
« Reply #33 on: January 29, 2017, 08:08:25 AM »
My mother died from Alzheimers. It took about eight years and was incredibly difficult for the whole family. Now I am dealing with my wife who has suffered both cancer and just this last year renal failure as a result requiring dialysis five days a week. We do this at home for many reasons too complicated to get into here. I am the care giver and hemodialysis tech. I don't know folks. There are many ways to loose the life you had. With the medical technology available today we are living longer but in no way it guarantees living the life you had. We do have one hope that she will receive a kidney transplant sometime but until then the life style we had is done. Travel has become very complex, expensive and really limited. On motorcycles its just not in the cards. So, for now the bikes will sit. We are going to try and keep up with some of the local stuff that goes on and I can get out for a run form time to time but as I said any rallies or trips are now out of reach. One has to deal with what ever life sends our way. If you are fortunate enough to keep riding and traveling at the age many of us have reached do it as often as you can. The day it all changes can come at any time.     
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Re: Alzheimers Program on PBS Last Night
« Reply #34 on: January 29, 2017, 03:36:51 PM »
 If you are fortunate enough to keep riding and traveling at the age many of us have reached do it as often as you can. The day it all changes can come at any time.     
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What I'm about to say is nothing in comparison to what you are dealing with, but I have a pinched nerve in my right leg to the point I can't walk for very long and take pills for it 2x a day.  This means I can no longer go to MC races and walk all over while there or anywhere else.   About all I can do in a day is grocery shopping, leaning on the shopping cart.  Never expected this to happen to me.  My back is shot too, but have a brace for it that helps somewhat @ 73 yo.  Getting old is not for the timid.  :huh:

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Re: Alzheimers Program on PBS Last Night
« Reply #35 on: January 29, 2017, 04:18:51 PM »
 My wife's mother died two years ago at 93...The last 5 years she had a good case dementia. She knew her mind was slipping and that made it even worse as she keep asking, "Am I a burden?"..My wife became the primary care giver...It was extremely hard on my wife who developed her own mental issues from the experience. I did what I could and my wife is becoming herself again....
















 

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