If I have problems with over-tightened filters and the cap wrench slipping I find just adding a couple of layers of clean rag, (Cotton sheeting is best.) over the cap wrench and hammering it on will give the required extra grip. I don't recommend puncturing the filter in any way, the casing is very thin and you'll run the risk of just tearing it to pieces and leaving the base stuck on its mount.
If the worst comes to the worst you can simply drop the sump, (Have a new gasket on hand as it will probably rip.) and have at it with a chain or strap wrench but it shouldn't be necessary.
Pete