jp, well you could use a black marker and mark your current settings on the threads. If you put yor stone on a lift and get that rear wheel off the ground to unload tension on the spring, you would have to run the spanner nut all the way down to its start point. mark the nut and count how many full rotations back up to your desired setting. write that number down. then do the other shock the same number of rotations..
or if you've got really good eyesight and can count threads (I cant, keep loosing my place), you might be able to get close to even? poncho