Many car splines (except for the clutch) are 'wet'.
Maybe fewer cylinders mean the power pulses are stronger, as in for two revs:
2 cylinders BOOM------BOOM------
4 cylinders boom-boom-boom-boom
More cylinders have more 'flywheel' weight (crankpins, pistons, rods) to smooth the booms out.
And the clutch splines may be deeper than on a bike.
Or BMW uses that VERY expensive lube as a profit center.